This VBA code checks all outgoing messages for attachments and asks if you send the message to all addressees.
Private Sub Application_ItemSend(ByVal Item As Object, Cancel As Boolean)
Dim intRes As Integer
Dim strMsg As String
If Item.Attachments.Count > 0 Then
strMsg = "Your " & Chr(34) & Item.Subject & Chr(34) & " message to " & _
Item.Recipients.Count & " recipient(s) including " & _
Item.Recipients.Item(1).Name & _
" contains at least one attachment. " & vbCrLf & vbCrLf & _
"Do you want to send this message?"
intRes = MsgBox(strMsg, vbYesNo + vbExclamation, "Confirm File Send")
If intRes = vbNo Then
' cancel send
Cancel = True
End If
End If
End Sub